April 2, 2011 A.D.
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April 2, 2011 Message The Love That Has No Boundaries PicturesPrayer for Nonbelievers Send Your Feedback
Our Lady Queen of Peace of Medjugorje’s April 2, 2011 Message Through Mirjana Soldo Given on the Day for Non-Believers
Once again Our Lady called us to pray for our shepherds and said:
The Love That Has No Boundaries
Today Our Lady said a phrase that She does not say often. The words, “you must.” Our Lady often “invites” us, but the words “you must” are of special significance as in “you have to” do what I say. “You must comprehend,” “you must comprehend,” “you must set out.” On this day of non-believers, the message is clearly for ‘us’, Her children, who are paying attention and reading this message. It is for us to point out another aspect of our non-belief which we’ve allowed in our hearts that today’s culture has influenced us in. Our hearts are closed due to the hardness of the world. Her expressed ‘desire’ shows She wants to “open the heart”, meaning our hearts are closed to different aspects of Her way. When Our Lady points out to us, “you are important to God.” Why is this so? Because “personal unity” with God means a closeness only a family can have. As an individual, one may say, “I am not significant. I make no difference in the culture.” But it is Our Lady who speaks truth and Her words state that She desires for you to comprehend ‘why’ you are important to God. You are God’s child. Our Lady is the spouse of the Holy Spirit. Our Lady is the daughter of God. Jesus, who is the Son of the Father, is the Son of Mary. Mary is our Mother. Jesus, therefore, is our brother. Can one then not see we, each of us individually, being in the family of God, are important to God? It is difficult when you are entangled in the world, with its complexities, to comprehend that out of 6.5 billion people who walk the earth, you are important and very significant to the Father. You, therefore, have the ability to change all the earth.
But how can you change the world? First, one ‘must’ comprehend that this is exactly what you are called to do. But how? Many would respond, “I am just one little individual.” It is achieved by personal unity with God. You come in unity with God by conversation, just as when a child who has a good conversation with his earthly father, is brought closer to his father, and the father closer to him. We know God is important and can change the world. If we connect to God in unity, we, in union with Him, become important and change the world because God’s importance supersedes all importance. Why does Our Lady want us to comprehend unity, family, no boundaries? Why is there little love of neighbor, or truth that goes to the end?
The Church Marriage Tribunals operate in a framework of intellectual untruth. They make the individual unimportant. They dole out ruling after ruling for annulments, saying that a valid marriage never took place. The individuals, those who are born of such “invalid unions” are, therefore, classed as products of an illegitimate union. One, therefore, is a illegitimate child. No, they do not say that in words. If it were just words, it would not be so bad. They say it by action, rulings, and decisions. The members of the Church, therefore, say love has bounds and there is a limit that can be crossed in which one can undo the marriage. But it is heresy to say that most marriages that receive annulments, never took place. Is it any wonder the individual in today’s culture does not comprehend his own importance? Is it any wonder that unity must, therefore, be taught by Our Lady (“…I desire … to teach you personal unity…”) to so many who do not know it because the members of the Church, by and large, have committed the great heresy of rationalization concerning annulments?
The pulpits are silent, especially of this heresy of rationalization, while families are shredded to pieces—the heart ripped out of a child, hearts of spouses given no support to stay together with a love that, in truth, has no boundaries. Anathema! Woe to those guardians who were told by John Paul II to quit giving out annulments! Woe to the United States Church whose population is 6% of the world’s Catholics and, yet, who give out 60% of the world’s annulments! There is not even a close second nation in the running for destruction of marriage! Italy holds second place at only 4.5% to the United States’ – 60% of the world’s annulments. And 4.5% is too much! The abortion of marriage is a shame upon the Church which does little to help form marriage, little to keep marriage together, but much from the pulpit of the breakup of marriage, the death by silence, no thunder of the voice of God that the love of God emanates from the truth that marriage goes to the end – till death do they part. This is the Heavenly Father’s teaching. Under the guise of “reasons of defect of consent,” the tribunal ‘boundaries’ for marriage ends at “verbal abuse,” “incompatibility,” and about 20 or so satanic heresies of rationalization….and the pulpit is silent…death of a small civilization…and the pulpit is silent…the birth of a growing number of non-believers who never knew love in the family, who are crippled in the heart, crippled in comprehending that they are loved by and important to their Heavenly Father, represented by the father in the home…and the pulpits are silent… There is a crisis of the love of neighbor because there is not the importance of love in the family, because there is a lack of importance of the preservation of marriage in the Church…and the pulpits are silent… Marriage formation in the Church and the steps offered in marriage preparation programs offer only a shell, a faÃ§ade of importance…and the pulpits are silent… One may say, “but I’ve heard from the pulpit about marriage preparation.” Yes, that may be the case, but the Church requires only 2 days of fasting a year. On each of these days, you can eat one regular meal and two small meals. This would be laughfulable if it where not so tragic. It was Our Lady who said in May of 1984 that the Catholic Church has forgotten fasting in the last quarter century.
In the same way in the last decades, the Church requires next to nothing for marriage preparation; no more than the equivalent of one regular meal and two small meals for fasting. The Church, in granting so many annulments is self admission, of a failure of the lack of solid, strong, grounded, marriage preparation.
Cry out, O poor lambs, whose torments are increased and finally fatalized by Church counselors and marriage tribunals, whose advice and decisions pave the way to the destruction of their families…and the pulpits are silent.
This is not being written for shock value. It is being written for truth. Those who are scandalized by these words do not love marriage as the sacred institution God ordained it to be. Permanent.
Marriage preparation in the Church is based upon an intellectual process, upon a method, for a marriage formation program that is meaningless. The marriage tribunals, doling out annulments like gambling chips, are the abortion mills of marriage. The ‘would have been’ children which would have been begotten by the now-murdered marriage will never be. But no one has the simplicity to see this. Blinded by being overly learned and by degrees, the tribunals and many who participate will be offended by these words. Yet, the most simple soul, humble soul, praying soul, can be infused with these truths upon reading them and understand. Annulments are abortions of future conception of children. Most annulments are nothing more than sanitized divorce. Divorce is forbidden by Church law, by Scripture. God hates divorce as stated in the Book of Malachi in the Bible. The Church today is under destruction of all that is not of God. The biggest scandal in the Church is not what has already broken in recent years, but what is in the open, yet not acknowledged… We are a Church greatly influenced by the culture, a culture who no longer abides by the Law – either civil law according to natural law, or Church law. We are filled with a lethal cancer…and the pulpits are silent…
It is Our Lady’s words which say so much which go beyond the boundaries of ink on paper which tell this culture, and the Church, to stop putting an end to what is of God, the God of permanence.
Our Lady puts no limits on love. The intellectually conceived Church marriage formation preparation programs are of no worth. They limit marriage preparation to such ridiculous mediocrity that to join a rotary club requires more. The Church puts limits on the importance of marriage. Yes, it is in its doctrine, it is in its law, but it is not in the life of the Church. We are living and suffering from the greatest heresy the Church has ever suffered – the heresy of rationalization. Our Lady has come to rise up a new order of things. Rise up a new Church, a new hope, the resurrection of the individual, the individual who is raised in a solid family. The solid family who makes up the solid nation. The nation who makes up the world, brought back to spiritual health. It can be achieved through the apostles Our Lady is raising up in this, Her time. She is leading and changing the direction of souls to understand, to comprehend, the preservation of the individual is important, and must be raised in an intact home where the Church is its bulkhead, and not its battering ram.
So can things change? Yes, and they will change. Our Lady’s apostles will open the doors to Our Lady’s triumph that will come. The shepherds who break the silence from the pulpit to bring about change will be persecuted severely, but will gloriously accompany and be beside Our Lady in Her triumph. Apostles and shepherds, speak with your life, then use words to echo your life…your life “must” be…
October 2, 2010
What of you who have received annulments? You are legally annulled because the Church has declared it so. What the Church declares on earth is declared in Heaven. Therefore, it is clearly stated you who have had annulments granted, are in the grace of the Church. No judgment is made against your annulment because again, what the Church declares, God binds in Heaven. But what of the counselors of the Church who lead you to such decisions? What of the Church Tribunals who have doled out the annulments? Some of those in these positions of making such decisions may not even be aware that they are doing wrong. Many of them are blinded by the pride of their qualifications and certifications which took years of training to achieve which, in turn, obliterated the vision of simple truth. Years of “higher learning” for degrees and training, years of preparation that they themselves do not expect in preparation for the greatest institution, the institution of the family begotten by marriage. This moment is the time to make all things right. Judgement is upon the culture and judgement is upon the Church, to purify it. We will see many signs of this in our time. Woe to those in position who helped create this failure and do nothing to stop it.
Love has no boundaries. Love is the beginning and the end. Truth is Love. God is Truth.
Love for the Triumph,
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April 2, 2011
“…Follow me, my children, so that also others, in recognizing the truth and love in you may follow you…”
“I invite you. I need you. I chose you. You are important.”
These words are for all of us to accept and embrace. Our Lady also said in Her first monthly message to the world:
January 25, 1987
“…I want you to comprehend that God has chosen each one of you, in order to use you in a great plan for the salvation of mankind…”
For those of us who have been traveling down this path with Our Lady for some time over the years, it would behoove us all to reflect on how well we have answered this call of Our Lady to be used by Her for this great plan for mankind’s salvation. For those who have been content to stay in the shadows of Our Lady’s plans, perhaps it is time to come into the light—to emanate the love and the truth of Our Lady to a world so in need of both.
17 thoughts on “The Love That Has No Boundaries – April 2, 2011”
I just listened to your radio program about this message. It was very bold and unafraid. It is unfortunately, a very tough sell for the world, where divorce has become the sacrament. I thank you especially though for the comments you made at the end for children of divorce. It was so true how I found God as my Father and Mary as my Mother.It is also true how children of divorce can be a voice like no other after having lived it.I just wish people wanted to listen.
Wonderful. My wife and I have been married 36 years, with all it,s troubles divorce or seperation was never an option. We have both been in Medugorje, and are aware more and more everyday of our Lady,s work and God,s will.Miracles are happening in our family everyday. We pray in graditude always.
dear mother thank you for your unconditional love,even when am not important in the eye of man,now u made to know that Gods love for me is boundless and am important in His eyes.
I have felt this for a long time. The facts are right in my face. I have been divorced for 20 years, have a daughter Carol 42, son Mark 46 both haven’t gone to Mass in years, and married outside of the Catholic Church. I had the priviledge of hearing Stanley from the Philippines give his story about “Divine Mercy, Jesus I Trust in you,” This all fits together. He said, “He has been going around giving talks on Jesus Mercy.”He has been approved by the Bishop of Cebu. Philippines to give his story
AMEN! I have been against annulments since I met Jesus(i am a cradle catholic, but I only knew of Jesus until my early 30s) and what you said is absolutely the truth. If only the bishops and his priests would obey our holy father and start preaching about the uncomfortable truths such as birth control, lustful marriages, annulments , abortions and how to fast properly, going to Mass on SUNDAYS, things would be so much better in our world. Of course, people don’t want to hear such things.
Simply beautiful. Thank you Mary, for helping me remember that I am important to God.
Forgive me for commenting again, but I thought it would be good to quote Pope John John Paul II from his 1987 speech to the Roma Rota marriage tribunal the Pope spoke of: “the scandal of seeing the value of Christian marriage being practically destroyed by the exaggerated and almost automatic multiplication of declarations of nullity of marriage in cases of the failure of marriage on the pretext of some immaturity or psychic weakness on the part of the contracting parties.”
Thank you Friend of Medjugorje for the response to Elaine below. I think a lot of people can misinterpret what was stated in this article. The point here from what I understood was not to condemn people who had annulments, but rather open everyone’s eyes to truth and for people to question why there are allowed so much. It’s true that though what is granted is bound in heaven, there is too much of this taking place, and Pope John Paul II did say to stop the annulments. – James
Thank you for this wonderful, yet difficult teaching. I am a daughter of an annulled marriage. I have asked my church what of us the forgotten, children of annulment. I have always been told that what I felt in my heart was not true. The Church should take special care of these affected children and offer them guidance, as they too will seek to be married one day. They face a difficult path as they are more likely to fail at marriage than children of families who are intact. May God bless you.
Today’s message seems that Mama Mary is talking to me personaly(particularly on what I am going through right now) and it probably touches many the same way. Indeed she is addressing the whole humankind. Thank you Father God for loving us infinitely. Thank you Mama Mary for loving us by constantly reminding us of God’s love for us.
I have been saying the same thing about annulments. It was taught to me by our Croatian Nuns in school that annulments were first decided by a tribunal of Cardenals and then approved by the Pope NOT the Bishop. But here in America they do what they please. They do not follow the Pope. Just look at all the different ways Mass is being said or the sacraments being administered. There isn’t uniformity. In Croatia it doesn’t matter which church you walk into all are the same.
Today is my 69th birthday.I had many, many FB B’Day greetings,many cards,phone calls but the one that warmed my heart the most was my call from Caritas of Birmingham,Alabama.I made it a point to go see Our Lady’s special place where She appears to Marija.Thank you Mother for all of Your love.
I have been devoted to Our Mother all my life. In the last couple of weeks, it has been heavy on my heart that all of us needs to know that we are God’s precious children. So many have never been told that. That He sent us His Son and gave us a church to guide us down through the ages. Now I know that it was my Dearest Mother that was putting it in my mind and heart. Thank you for your work for the Blessed Mother.
YES, I am shocked at your words. Are you saying that those of us who have had annulments are living in sin? I was a very immature 20 yr old, wanting only to get out of the home of my STRICT father. I was not capable of making a valid decision in that marriage. It was an alcholic abusive marriage.My pastor told me it was not a Christian marriage and that in the interest of the children to leave before they were hurt. Are you laying a guilt trip on one who followed the advice of a pastor.
No. Your feedback proves my point. If you read the end of the writing ‘Love that has no Boundaries’ you would have seen stated annulments granted by the Church are accepted in the eyes of God. It does not mean however that it is God’s desire. Your situation is exactly what is written about in regards to the failure of the Church to give adequate marriage preparation and guidance. If you download and read ‘Whose Opinion is Right and The Painful Truth’ you will be satisfied at what was written and your shock should turn to why did you not know these things. The flock is in need of strong shepherds who do not fear consequences of stating the truth. As a lay man I act in the name of Our Lady who calls us to be apostles and by my baptism by which we are all priests, prophets and kings in a certain way (Catholic Catechism n. 1546). Our Lady has come to wake us from our sleep of who we are and that we have a large role in bringing the Church into a new spring time.
A Friend of Medjugorje
There is one thing we can always count on from Caritas- truth revealed and spoken with love. It may be difficult to hear these truths, yet, if allowed to sink deep into the spirit, and given to prayer, Our Lady will school, heal, and show how to best accept this truth without bitterness. Like all the Sacraments, marriage also is instituted by God to give grace. As two become one and prepare for this Sacrament those words hold grave significance, more than is being taught and nurtured. Thank-you.
Thank you for your wise words. We need to hear the truth even if it’s painful. God bless you for all the good you bring about.
Wow! A profound re-teaching. – James