It is dangerous to make judgments. It’s best to avoid doing so altogether, without a complete picture, or by judging by appearance only. Anyone who takes a strong stance will be both loved and opposed. You will not please everyone and more so, if you are commissioned with a mission by God. Let people talk, truth prevails.
To live in community is to live in a place where love of neighbor is not a command but a natural result of the way one lives.