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November 6, 2025
Our Lady Wants a “Yes” or “No”
[Podcast] (30 Minutes) – A Friend of Medjugorje presents the choice Our Lady has given each to decide on. His words are a challenge from Our Lady that one cannot just get by anymore.
Episode Transcript
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[MUSIC]
[ANNOUNCER]
This is a Special World Report with a Friend of Medjugorje.
[A FRIEND OF MEDJUGORJE]
Our Lady is thinking. September 25, 2000, Our Lady says:
“…Form prayer groups…All those who pray and are members of prayer groups are open to God’s will in their hearts and joyfully witness God’s love…”
Our Lady said on June 25, 2004:
“…Prayer groups are powerful and through them I can see, little children, that the Holy Spirit is at work in the world…”
That is way back in 2004, but so many messages have been given by Our Lady and everybody gets lazy, and they drop out what She says to do.
July 3, 2012, Our Lady said a profound message. Marija and I were kneeling together.
A port opened in the heavens and came to the earth to a spot no bigger than five foot by five foot of ground, where the Queen of Peace bringing a profound message.
To change from that spot to spread to across the nation and the nations of the whole world.
That July 3rd message, 2012, next to the Tree in the Field, with thousands there:
“Make prayer groups through which we will pray for your healing and the healing of this nation to draw closer to God and to me.”
May 25, 2024
“…create prayer groups…”
And here, recently, October 25, 2025, Our Lady said:
“…create prayer groups…”
The most profound one to me was July 3, 2012, in the Field, because we had two consecrations before that.
And then Our Lady makes it so clear that if we make and start prayer groups, things are going to change.
We just released a couple of days ago, to start and make it easy for you to start a prayer group or join one.
Just in a couple of days, we got 50 people wanting to start a prayer group.
This is not just in the United States. We’ve got people from Canada [clapping]
Australia
Columbia
Texas
Louisiana
Iowa
South Carolina
New York
California
Florida
Ohio
New Jersey
North Carolina
Kentucky
Missouri
Connecticut
Wisconsin
Arkansas
Colorado
Pennsylvania
[Clapping]
As I said last show, are you going to say “yes” to Our Lady or are you going to say no.
If you just ignore this and you don’t do it, thinking you can get around it, Our Lady says:
March 25, 2001
“…You live in a time in which God gives great graces but you do not know how to make good use of them…”
Then Our Lady says in this message:
“…Say yes to God…”
God is allowing Our Lady to come down to the world, a little spot right here, and yes, in Medjugorje, but our road here, that She made here is all these things you hear from Caritas and what Our Lady has done here.
When Marija was coming here and I brought her from the airport, I started thinking, where would we go for her apparitions?
We’ll go to a church. We went to a church, a beautiful church, for the apparition. It wasn’t that time for it.
And we went there. I felt cold.
And Marija, the same thing. And a couple of people were with me. They felt the same thing.
So, we went back to my house and Marija goes through the house, and most of you know the story.
The last room she went to look was our Bedroom.
And the Cross, Fr. Slavko gave me that, my wife ??
She was supposed to get up and put the Cross on the wall.
And that’s where everything started in the Bedroom.
I didn’t know. My wife didn’t know. My kids didn’t know.
But Our Lady did.
Our Lady had a plan, a big plan for saving the world, saving the family and show and teach you from the Bedroom.
I am going to let you listen to the clip out of the book, How to Change Your Husband.
This one book is constantly has been reprinted because it is filled with medicine.
So listen to this.
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[MUSIC]
[NARRATOR]
In 1988, when Marija first came to America, it was impossible for a visionary to go someplace and stay for three months.
Yet, Our Lady had a plan to do just that. In Medjugorje, the visionaries knelt before a Crucifix hundreds of times to receive Our Lady.
To the visionaries it would disappear, and Our Lady would be there before them. When the apparition room was moved, Fr. Slavko gave this Crucifix to the friend whom Marija later would be staying with in America.
Knowing how sacred and special it was, he first brought it to Marija while still in Medjugorje to pray over it — that it be a great instrument for conversion in our country.
Marija, along with himself and several others, prayed over it, and then Marija slowly kissed it. The way in which she did it, so reverently, spoke even deeper to the friend of how special a gift this was.
He brought it home where it stayed for months in his living room. Later, it happened that Marija was to come to America to donate a kidney to her brother. The friend returned to Medjugorje to get Marija.
Several days later, the day before he was to return home, he called his wife and told her he would be bringing Marija to America the next day.
That night his wife had a dream that she was to place the Crucifix above their bed. She could not sleep, having a tremendous and overwhelming urge to hang the Crucifix above their bed along with a statue of Our Lady.
All night something pushed her and would not let her rest. Finally, after several hours of struggling, she gave in to this strange burning desire and hung the Crucifix from the apparition room in Medjugorje upon the wall overlooking their bed.
She said she did not want it there but could only satisfy the urge by doing so. She had never felt anything like this in her entire life. Fulfilling this powerful urge, she felt satisfied and at peace.
When Marija first arrived, it was thought that the apparitions would take place in a church, but when circumstances arose to make that impossible, the second choice was for them to take place in the couple’s home.
The husband and wife assumed the apparitions would take place in their living room. Marija, however, went into the bedroom, saw the bed and the Crucifix over it, and with a strong clear discernment decisively said this is where the apparitions would take place.
The husband and wife looked at each other with the same thought, thinking to themselves, “This is our last choice for the apparitions.” Nevertheless, the first apparition took place over the bed.
It was very clear that it was what Our Lady wanted. From over this bed, this rooted stump, a whole mission sprang forth, a whole community. Our Lady birthed many conversions, which were conceived in grace from these apparitions upon this bed.
She spoke beautiful words, giving many graces from upon this bed for the next three months. The Bedroom is only open one day a year, falling between December 8th to the 12th for people to go and pray. Many conversions as well as several vocations have been birthed from those visits and many receive a special grace.
The Field, where many people now come with their intentions, was “birthed” from this bed.
On one particular day Our Lady said from the bed, “Tomorrow I will appear outside. I invite the public to come.”
That next day’s apparition was on Thanksgiving Day and took place near a large pine tree in a field near the home. Many have come to realize that this special apparition is related to the rebirth of our country.
Through the action of Our Lady and the prompting of the Holy Spirit, it has become a place where people now gather yearly to pray for our nation’s healing.
A hundred thousand people have been praying novenas and are continuing to pray them seven months out of the year, for the last 17 years as of 2010, for the healing of our land, because of this spot in the Field which was birthed upon this bed.
One thought could be, “One hundred thousand is a lot of people,” but compared to a nation of two hundred million, it is nothing. Elisha, from the Bible, one man with faith, closed the Heavens of rain. Three years later with prayers so fervent, he opened them.
If one individual, Elisha, can close the heavens of rain, how much more can one hundred thousand people, praying in union, together from the heart, do for a nation, and all because the husband and wife submitted.
The husband submitted totally to God, the wife to the husband. It all revolves around the husband and wife’s submission, centered around their bed, which was God’s will.
Yearly the number of people praying for our nation’s healing grows. How far and how big it becomes depends on God’s grace and people’s prayers.
But it all started with a tiny atom, a simple “yes” to God from a man, his wife’s “yes” to him, and this prayer universe continues to grow and expand, all in God’s order.
[END NARRATION]
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[A FRIEND OF MEDJUGORJE]
You and your prayer group are just you by yourself, seeking to join a prayer group. Make plans now for December 8th to December 12th.
It is a beautiful experience. You will be here on sanctified ground that has been touched by the cloud that Our Lady has touched.
It is a time to say “yes” to Our Lady here in the Bedroom, in the Field and the Tabernacle and the Cross.
For Christmas, come to clean yourself and change your and see what you have to change in your life.
I want to play to encourage you to be here and if you have been here before, this next seven minutes will bring memories that are very sweet.
I encourage you to come to make more memories while Our Lady is still coming here every day.
[COMMERCIAL FOR DECEMBER 8-12TH]
[MUSIC]
[A FRIEND OF MEDJUGORJE]
When the apparitions started here in 1988, it was so mystical.
We were stupefied by what was taking place.
When Our Lady appeared in the Field, people gathered there and apparitions would take place in the Bedroom.
And we would turn the light on when Our Lady came and people would look to the South at the House, seeing it glowing, and they knew Our Lady was there
And when the apparition ended, we turned it off.
It accentuated the experience and it moved people very, very deeply.
There was a journalist that was in the Field on November 1988 with The Birmingham Magazine.
And he published his experience.
[NARRATOR]
One of the curious, I arrived on a November Sunday as an early full moon hauled itself up over the blue Alabama hills.
I walked a worn cattle trail down a hill and up a grassy rise, my feet raising the smell of new hay.
On the hilltop, I paused, amazed.
Below me spread a scene from El Cid, or some other religious epic of the screen.
Three thousand people waited in that Alabama field, in a hollow that held them like a pair of gentle hands.
Many here had been waiting all day.
Now these faces turned to the house where Marija lay waiting for her vision.
A ruffle of emotion swept the crowd. The feeling leaped across the field, a visible physical jolt to some.
The lights burned. Four minutes. Five minutes.
The hillside settled, grew quiet.
When the lights went off a quick noise swept the throng, then moved on, leaving reverence and quiet sobs.
The writer, the observer, came back to life in me then, and detached me from that remarkable experience: Look around you. this is faith.
I glanced upward too. There in the heavens hung another unforgettable sight.
Over the house and field that night—the full moon wore a huge autumn halo, the largest I ever saw.
Its circle of light seemed larger than the world.
[END OF NARRATION]
[SONG]
I want you to know
If you look South you will see a glow
Every light in the house is on
The backyard’s bright as the crack of dawn
The front walk looks like runway lights
It’s kind of like noon in the dead of night
Every light in the house is on
Just in case you ever do get tired of being gone
Every light in the house is on.
[A FRIEND OF MEDJUGORJE]
We’ve had through the years people tell us over and over when they turn off the highway to come back here, after the experiences they’ve had throughout the years, even when Our Lady is not here, that they feel like they are coming home.
For many, many years we’ve had Christmas in the Field, December 8th through the 12th.
And during that time, beginning to turning the lights on in the house, not just the front porch light, but every light in the house.
And it glows.
And people look from the Field, on Christmas in the Field, and they see the house glowing and it’s a remembrance of those beautiful times Our Lady has been here.
Not just 1988 and ’89, but the many times Our Lady has come.
So, I want to tell you just in case you ever do get tired of being gone, every light in the house is on, on Christmas in the Field.
And for you who have been away, make a spontaneous decision to come to your home and pray in the Bedroom of Apparitions and fill your heart with Our Lady.
It refreshes you to see the house where Our Lady came, being in the Field, seeing all those lights on.
People have told us, Christmas Night in the Field is strongest part of their Christmas where they feel it.
[MUSIC]
Sancta Maria
Sancta Maria
Sancta Maria
Sancta Maria
Sancta Maria, Maria, Maria
Sancta Maria, Maria, Maria
Sancta Maria, Maria, Maria
Sancta Maria, Maria, Maria
[ANNOUNCER]
Make a spur of the moment decision and come to Caritas, December 8th through 12th.
Every place in the Continental US is within 48 hours of driving time.
For more information, contact Caritas in the US at 205-672-2000.
For those traveling from outside the United States, dial 001-205-672-2000 or visit Mej.com spelled M-E-J.com and click on December 8th through 12th.
[END COMMERICAL]
[A FRIEND OF MEDJUGORJE]
I am asking you. Are you going to start a prayer group or join one?
If you are, say “yes.” And if you are not, say no.
Let your “yes” be yes, and your “no” be no.
We have a beautiful, beautiful moment.
I want to see you. Our Lady wants to see you.
We have angels that have been with Our Lady and Our Lady has been with the angels in the Bedroom.
Come here and bring your prayer group.
I wish you Our Lady, I love you, goodnight.
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[COMMERCIAL]
The home is sacred, a noble place where order is born.
The Greek philosopher, Homer, said:
“There is nothing more nobler or admirable then when two people who see eye to eye keep house as man and wife, confounding their enemies and delighting their friends.”
What takes place in the home has an important effect upon the whole world.
If homes are unstable, the whole of society will be also.
The only way to have a stable home and see eye to eye, is to understand your role and live it.
By this means, society will change.
Many homes today, including Christian homes are only filled with unpeace and strife.
Is your home a holy, sacred place?
A refuge where the Holy Spirit wishes to dwell in the midst of family?
Or is your home a war zone, with no peace, full of strife and division?
Is there hope for change?
How to Change Your Husband, by a Friend of Medjugorje, truly an Owner’s Manual for the Family.
God’s direction through Our Lady and Her messages from Medjugorje.
For over 15 years, How to Change Your Husband has healed thousands of families through God’s grace.
How to Change Your Husband, available through Caritas of Birmingham.
For a free download or to order visit Mej.com, spelled M-E-J.com
Or contact Caritas in the US at 205-672-2000.
How to Change Your Husband, by a Friend of Medjugorje, available through Caritas of Birmingham.
[SONG]
When the weight of the world
Breaks down so strong it
Leaves footprints on the street
And there’s too many miles to face
Without a few more hours sleep
The storm clouds overhead won’t shed
Any rain to quench your thirst
I wanna be the one you reach for first
When your faith is stretched so thin
That you can see right through your soul
And you can’t find a nickel to buy a smile cuz all your pockets all got holes
You wanna shut the door and
Hide before the day can get much worse
I wanna be the one you reach for first
Fall into me
My arms are opened wide
And you don’t have to say a word
Cuz I already see
That it’s hard
And you’re scared
And you’re tired
And it hurts
And I wanna be the one you reach for first
I wanna be the bottle you’ve been drinkin with your eyes
Or the road you run away on
You’ve been runnin all your life
The third row pew that you last knew
As a child in church
I wanna be the one you reach for first
Fall into me
My arms are opened wide
And you don’t have to say a word
Cuz I already see
That it’s hard
And you’re scared
And you’re tired
And it hurts
And I wanna be the one you reach for first
Before you turn the key
Before you fall asleep
Before you drift away
To find some demons waiting for you
In your dreams
Before your arms stretched wide open
Before you’re reaching for the sky
Before you’re searching for direction
And all the answers till you fall
Fall into me
My arms are stretched opened wide
You don’t have to say a word
Cuz I already see
That its hard
And you’re scared
And you’re tired
And it hurts
And I wanna be the one you reach for first
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3 thoughts on “Our Lady Wants a “Yes” or “No””
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City: Sierra Vista
State: AZ
Country: United States
I have posted to have everyone on my list to start prayer groups. I have led a prayer group for over 14 years. Since my 95 year old husband’s illness and my falls lately, I have not been able to continue with the prayer group. But we still meet once a month. I am devoted to prayer and to fasting! I love Jesus and Mary and the trinity is in my daily prayers. It means so very much to me to continue to pray for peace in the world. I will continue to do this daily, as I have done for many years. Blessings to your messages. -
City: Conroe
State: TX
Country: United States
Yes I will start a prayer group in my home with Our Lady’s Help! Thank you Caritas for all your work in promoting Our Holy Mother’s Messages from Heaven. Please pray for me and my family. Helena



3 thoughts on “Our Lady Wants a “Yes” or “No””
State: LA
Yes, have been in a group for over 10 years now. Mother Mary is always a part of our studies.
City: Sierra Vista
State: AZ
Country: United States
I have posted to have everyone on my list to start prayer groups. I have led a prayer group for over 14 years. Since my 95 year old husband’s illness and my falls lately, I have not been able to continue with the prayer group. But we still meet once a month. I am devoted to prayer and to fasting! I love Jesus and Mary and the trinity is in my daily prayers. It means so very much to me to continue to pray for peace in the world. I will continue to do this daily, as I have done for many years. Blessings to your messages.
City: Conroe
State: TX
Country: United States
Yes I will start a prayer group in my home with Our Lady’s Help! Thank you Caritas for all your work in promoting Our Holy Mother’s Messages from Heaven. Please pray for me and my family. Helena