The writings of a Friend of Medjugorje have given birth to countless numbers of conversions to people of many nations who follow the direction he gives through his writings or spiritual direction based on Our Ladys messages. This has resulted in Caritas of Birmingham receiving a constant flow of thousands of letters and phone calls seeking direction. This booklet is based on one such letter, from one who wrote seeking help, and the answer that was given by A Friend of Medjugorje. Very rarely do we publish such an exchange, but this publishing seemed warranted. Little did we realize the onslaught of mail we would receive as a result of its first publishing. Its content will leave no one without benefit to their soul.