Lifting the Bar of Fallenness

Lifting the Bar of Fallenness


January 2, 2014 A.D.

Our Lady Queen of Peace of Medjugorje’s January 2, 2014
Apparition and Message Given through Mirjana on the Day for Nonbelievers

The following is the message of Our Lady given through Mirjana during her apparition:

“Dear children; For you to be able to be my apostles and to be able to help all those who are in darkness, to come to know the light of the love of my Son, you must have pure and humble hearts. You can not help for my Son to be born in, and to reign in, the hearts of those who do not know Him, if He does not reign – if He is not the King – in your heart. I am with you. I am walking with you as a mother. I am knocking on your hearts. They can not open because they are not humble. I am praying, and you my beloved children also pray, that you may be able to open pure and humble hearts to my Son and to receive the gifts which He has promised you. Then you will be led by the love and strength of my Son. Then, you will be my apostles who everywhere around them spread the fruits of God’s love. My Son will act from within you and through you, because you will be “one”. My motherly heart yearns for this – for unity of all of my children – through my Son. With great love I bless, and pray for those who are chosen by my Son – for your shepherds. Thank you.”

At first Our Lady was sad and then decisive.


Lifting the Bar of Fallenness

by A Friend of Medjugorje

The uniting of Christianity throughout the world is in the heart of Our Lady as part of Her plans. From this unity, Our Lady wants to bring the world to conversion. Our Lady sees, as a Mother, for all Her children who are Christians, both lax and active, that She cannot achieve victory without Her children of all Christian faiths being one. Unity is one of the first steps. However, Her plan is not for this to be our goal that we must work on ecumenism or go convert those of another Christian faiths to come into the one true Church, rather that is the fruit that will be the natural result. All we must do to unite all Christians is to be of humble and pure hearts. Hearts of a makeup that show the King reigns in them. It is then we will see the natural fruit of God’s action. He Himself will bring Christians into oneness. This is one aspect of Our Lady’s plan. So much does She desire for Her children, whose family’s name is “Christian,” to be one, that She burns for this. Our Lady is driven by a love for the family named “Christian” living across the earth. So much so that She does not cease yearning for the family’s peace and unity to be one in love and the way of life of Her Son.

For the plan above to be achieved, the children of Our Lady, with the family name “Non-believers,” will see the family with the last name “Christian” and want to marry into it. A yearning of those in the family of non-believers who seek family will find it in the family named Christian where the King reigns in the heart of the family’s apostles. Our Lady’s children in the clan of non-believers will slowly join the Christian clan, then they will be joined by the hundreds, then by the thousands, into the tens of millions, into hundreds of millions, all joining the family. Others with different doctrines and beliefs will follow suit. For the oneness of the Mother known as Mary with the Trinity, will fruit into the marrying of so many into the Christian family. This is befitting as it was through Her initiation at Cana that Her Son increased the wine at the wedding. Through Her yearnings “for unity of all my children,” Her Son “will act from within” the apostles to not only increase the family named “Christian,” but then “will act from within them” not only in increasing numbers, but also in deepening oneness.

The smaller we see ourselves and the bigger we see God, the more our capacity is increased for God to use us as a highly specialized tool. What is a tool but a hunk of iron or some other material? What can a tool do on its own? Rather what it can do is dependent on the skill level of the one who uses it. What if God is the master craftsman who uses it? His tools must be pure and in humility, recognizing they are nothing but a hunk of mass, but capable of reaching their full potential in the hand of a master in the work they accomplish.
God’s requirements:

1. Be open.

2. Be of pure heart.

3. Be humble.

4. Be in prayer to be the above.

5. You will then be an instrument to be used not only to wed Christianity into one Church but greatly expand it as well.

How can that be a certainty? Because God desires it.

June 25, 2007

“…God desires to convert the entire world…”

She who comes with the power granted a queen will get what She wills because She wills what is God’s.

A Friend of Medjugorje


P.S. For more insight into Our Lady’s message given today, be sure to listen to Radio WAVE with A Friend of Medjugorje, as he discusses Our Lady’s January 2, 2014 message. To listen to the January 2, 2014 Radio WAVE show titled, “Let It Be So”, visit here…


What does it mean to live humbly? Our Lady said today:

“…I am praying, and you my beloved children also pray, that you may be able to open pure and humble hearts to my Son and to receive the gifts which He has promised you…”

One of the greatest gifts your children can receive is humility. Today, many children are raised as tyrants, with a “I don’t care” attitude and not humble. Parents contribute to this arrogance that may not even be flagrantly displayed, but is in the heart. Our Lady has taught us in community to block out, to censor the ways of the world, the computers and other things that give self-importance, etc. Darkness is always knocking at the community’s door, wanting to come in. We thoroughly censor darkness, willfully wanting only to answer the knock from Our Lady, as Our Lady said on January 2, 2014:

“…I am knocking at your hearts…”

To keep our children pure and humble, we have built, with God’s grace, structure in a way of life that is conducive to purity and humility. All children have the stain of Adam and are prone to fallenness. One thing we do in community is to raise the bar of what is fallenness to a level that, when they do something mischievous or know they may should not be doing something, feel conviction in their heart, even though most would judge the action as nothing. However, we want them to have a mentality that what others may not think is wrong, their initial level of wrong would, in humility, keep them from being lowered to grievous wrong. The following pictures are of the Community children sneaking out to do something that was not wrong in and of itself, except they should have simply sought permission. But they were caught, unaware that we were taking pictures.

Caritas Kids and Cow


“You must have pure and humble hearts.” Some of the Community kids decided to go to the pasture with cups. They had a plan. With five children on one side, lined up as at a water fountain, and one on the other, they are unaware a community adult was watching what was happening and grabbed the camera. One of them heard some noise and looked up.


Caritas Kids and Cow

Then two more heard something and looked up.

Caritas Community Children with Cow


With the others realizing their pictures were being taken, they abandoned the milk fountain, leaving this one caught.


Caritas Community Kids with Cow

By the smile of the picture taker, they realized it was okay.

Caritas Kids with Cow

Open, pure, and humble – brings joy to help all those who know only darkness of a loss of innocence.

 Caritas Kids with Milk


Community kids standing around drinking their loot.

Caritas Community Kids with Milk

Cheers for a happy peace-filled New Year with the way of life Our Lady wants to give you.  


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5 thoughts on “Lifting the Bar of Fallenness”

  1. I think this was the first time I understood “community” can do something like this. I guess I have been living in the dark for a long time. I am often around professed Christians, but for the last nine months I have been praying the rosary once or twice a week with folks who have been to Medjugorje. It seems I am recognizing prayer truly is powerful and Our Lady can change hearts … as hardened as mine. There is hope for our children. There is hope! Thank you and may God continue to bless you and all His works. Persevere. Blessed be God!

  2. Nice to see. children with this village view. I am going to my village tomorrow and I remember the children over there. Same but they are brownish, and these are red and pink, lovely. Our children most of them they don’t have good food to eat and clothed themselves and no proper shelter. Just pray. The rest is in God’s hand. Thank you.

  3. As one of the youths, my lament never cease! May Our Lady help us be humble, pray and truly open our hearts to HER and our LORD JESUS CHRIST!!

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